Learn how to individually and collectively thrive, communicate effectively, purposefully align, lovingly challenge, and get out of blind spots that are highlighted within relationships. Conscious partnership is about taking radical responsibility to learn about yourself first — implementing curiosity,  trust, fun, authenticity, vulnerability, and seeking to create a “win-for-all.”

No matter the relationship, there will be conflict, misalignment, frustration, anxiety, etc. This is your time to be authentic about your thoughts, your feelings, and your wants. Practicing holding your wants loosely is your growth edge. This means it is your opportunity to welcome discomfort.

When we are triggered by our partners, it has nothing to do with them. These triggers come up inside of us because there is a control pattern within us that wants to be released. We learn these patterns from a young age… How to be loved and approved of by our parents. How to be chosen for the basketball team. How to get the girl/ guy we want. We unconsciously set up these defensive patterns when we believed we were not enough on our own.

We get most triggered by those who are closest to us. This is because our false identity patterns that we have unintentionally been clinging to want to be broken. Your partner is a growth catalyst by shining light on the patterns that no longer serve you. And you know what it is like to be on the other side shining the light on them. The truth is, we really are each other’s allies, even though it does not feel like it. This is your ego/ false identity that does not want to change. This is why you may find it uncomfortable to look at yourself when your partner shines the light, and why you get defensive. Your ego/ false identity doesn’t want to die! This is true for all of us. Those who find joy and peace are the ones who are willing to stay in their discomfort and face their sabotaging beliefs and behaviors. If you are really willing to do this for yourself, your well-being will no longer be attached to how your partner is or is not.

Learning how to take radical responsibility for how you are showing up, regardless of how the other is, will change not only the relationship you have with yourself, it will also affect your relationship with your partner.

Discover your true identity, how you unintentionally sabotage your relationship, and how to break free of inner blindspots.

The very purpose of being in a relationship is so that we can develop a trusting and safe environment that allows each other to be vulnerable while doing our work to thrive. Learning to love oneself in the midst of seeing our false self is courageous and the only way to step into who we are called to be.

Learn how to hold space for each other’s growth.

I bring this up in the conscious leadership space because what I have noticed when leaders are suffering at home, it impacts their relationships and decision-making at work. It is impossible to separate the two.

Whether in your professional or personal life, the results you gain are full aliveness, understanding, compassion, and purpose. Learning how to love and accept yourself enables acceptance of your partner and the decisions they make whether at home or at work.

Want to thrive in all areas of your relationships? I invite you to book a call with me now to discover if we are a great fit! 

Some ways that I love coaching partners… Individual and couples coaching. Couples retreats and workshops. Enneagram for individuals and couples.

If you are a leader struggling with separating your home and work life, I get it! The struggle is because you are not meant to separate yourself depending on where you are. This is actually perfect timing… remember your discomfort is showing that you are ready to learn about yourself. Cheers to you! Looking forward to our call.