Thriving Together: Enneagram Coaching + Retreats for Couples in Life and Business
What happens at home shows up at work—and what happens at work follows you home.
If you and your partner are building a life and a business together, you already know the truth of that statement. The highs and lows of one inevitably affect the other. When your relationship is in sync, everything flows—your leadership is stronger, communication is smoother, your family feels more grounded. But when you're disconnected, it can feel like everything is out of alignment.
That’s why I created Thriving Together—a powerful coaching and retreat experience for couples navigating both life and leadership, home and business, love and legacy.
It’s not about quick fixes. It’s about going deep.
This offering is for couples who want more than surface-level support. You’re not here for another date night suggestion or conflict resolution tip. You’re ready to dive into real transformation. You want sustainable intimacy, clarity, and aligned growth.
But first, let’s name the challenge…
When Roles Blur, Things Get Messy
Couples in business—or even just deeply involved in each other's day-to-day—face a unique dynamic. You’re not just romantic partners. You’re often:
Business collaborators
Co-parents
Financial partners
Logistics managers
Emotional support systems
And when you don’t have clear, conscious transitions between these roles, your connection can become transactional. Decision-making gets stuck in loops. The spark fades. Intimacy suffers. The shared vision that once brought you together starts to blur.
If you’ve been feeling more like roommates or co-founders than lovers, you’re not alone—and there’s a path forward.
What’s Possible?
We’re not choosing between a thriving relationship and a successful business. We’re building both. Together.
When your partnership is strong, grounded, and aligned, here’s what starts to shift:
💡 Your business benefits from clearer communication and leadership
💡 Parenting feels more unified and intentional
💡 Emotional fluency grows—less reactivity, more compassion
💡 Stress decreases
💡 Joy, connection, and intimacy increase
Our Transformational Tool: The Enneagram
This work is anchored in the Enneagram—a powerful map of personality, ego, and inner motivation. But we’re not stopping at surface-level typing.
We use the Enneagram to:
Uncover patterns that drive how you relate, lead, and respond under pressure
Reveal outdated dynamics that no longer serve your relationship
Create new language and tools for deeper connection and mutual support
As trust builds, we gently explore something even deeper: the false identities and protective roles each partner has developed over time—patterns that keep you stuck, even when you’re doing your best to move forward.
This is the gateway to profound, lasting change.
Ways to Work Together
🌀 1:1 Coaching for Couples
A three-month tailored journey that includes:
Individual Enneagram assessments + a comprehensive Couple’s Report
Two or three private sessions per month
Tools to support emotional connection, shared leadership, and intimacy
Ideal for couples who are steady but want more depth—or who feel a bit stuck and ready to find their way back
🌿 Private Couples Retreats
Press pause. Reconnect. Remember why you started.
Custom one-day or weekend retreats with personalized coaching, Enneagram insights, nature time, and intentional space just for the two of you.
Perfect for major life decisions, anniversaries, or simply hitting reset.
💞 Group Couples Retreats
Join other growth-minded couples—many of whom are also business leaders—for a heart-opening, energizing experience.
Reflective and interactive sessions
Honest, real conversations
Community with other couples who value growth, depth, and connection
This Is for You If…
You love each other—but feel more like teammates than lovers
You’re tired of always talking about logistics, business, or the kids
You miss the spark, the ease, the play
You’re committed to growing together—not just staying together
You believe that thriving relationships are the foundation of everything
Let’s Talk
If this speaks to you, I’d love to invite you to a free 15-minute Discovery Call. No pressure—just a genuine conversation to explore what’s possible and see if this work is a good fit.
👉 Book Your Call:https://calendly.com/booksunderlandcoaching/15min
PS – You Don’t Have to Run a Business Together
Even if you’re not in business with your partner, you’re building something important—a life, a family, a future. This work supports that, too. Whether you're thriving and want to go deeper or drifting and ready to reconnect, this offering can meet you where you are.
Your relationship is worth investing in. Your future together is worth building with intention. Let’s make it thrive—together.