The Signal: What Your Body Knows Before You Make a Bad Decision

There is a specific feeling right before you override a team decision.

Before you take on a client you already know is wrong for you.

Before you lower your price because the silence on the other end of the call made you anxious.

I call it the signal.

It shows up in your chest, your jaw, your breath. A tightening. A speeding up. A pull to act right now before you feel this discomfort a second longer.

That signal is fear, dressed up as urgency. And when you act from it, you are not leading. You are managing a feeling.

Learning to notice the signal is the first Invisible Win. Not fixing it. Not making it go away. Just noticing it, in real time, before it drives the decision.

The leaders I work with who build the most sustainable businesses are not the ones who never feel the signal. They still feel it. Every one of them.

The difference is they have learned to pause when it shows up instead of acting on it immediately.

This week, watch for it. In your next hard conversation, your next pricing decision, your next moment of team conflict.

Notice the signal. Then decide, instead of react.

Take the Leadership Blind Spot Assessment to see where your signal shows up most.

With love,

Debra

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